Today in heaven my father turned 105. Finally working steady daylight, he’s got it knocked: eight to four, double time and a half, no asbestos, no shoveling slag on the open hearth, no boss, thirteen weeks vacation annually, kingdom come. The union up here takes zero shit. Home well before dark, traffic mellow, blue sky, nothing but green signals; perfect parking spot right in front of the house, plenty of time, once home, to sit a minute, smoke a Camel, sip an Iron City pony beneath the olive and lemon trees he planted when he first arrived, 368 days after my mother, to celebrate their fifty-ninth anniversary. They grow well in heaven — mild weather year-round, like Puglia, save for snow on holy days & feasts. My mother has his clothes for the party laid out on their bed: khakis, short-sleeved summer white shirt. The party’s at Aunt Lu’s, everybody there at each stage of their lives, concurrently. Another time this would have struck them as outlandish. Not now. They were poor; they suffered. Now they’re happy. Money’s not an issue. No one gets sick. The neighborhood’s safe. Everyone gets along. At all times, they act reasonably. Light surrounds them. It’s that kind of place. Angels from the ether bear platters of ravioli from Groceria Italiano in Bloomfield; sausage from Joe Grasso on Larimer Avenue; lemon ice from Moio’s; sfogliatelles from Barsotti; Parmesan, aged for eternity; scungilli from Umberto’s Clam House that Uncle Ralph scored from a Detroit crony; wine from the wedding feast at Canaan. My mother made the artichokes and baked my dad’s favorite — egg custard pie, with every single candle: 105. “Joe looks good,” says my mother. Says my dad, “Gimme a kiss, Rose.” With no hesitation she dips in — long brown hair, brown eyes, red lipstick, sassy forties dress, halo hovering like lilac. My dad’s taken to rope sandals and a straw fedora. They’re movie stars. He looks at his watch. “Tomorrow’s another working day,” he says, and winks. They form a conga line and weave the rooms and halls, up through the bedrooms, into the attic, singing “Grandma’s Lye Soap.” Aunt Margaret deals blackjack at the big dining-room table. All the food is still out, but they decide to cook again: peppers and eggs, hot sausage. Chubby Checker on the turntable, the kids doing the twist. Uncle Pippi starts with the Italian songs. Papa twirls Aunt Theresa in a tarantella, and, suddenly winter, it begins to snow. Here they are, saying goodbye: time to go home, kissing, bundling babies, shackling chains to cars. My father helps his mother, Maria Cristina Bochicchio, down the steep stone stairs to Lemington Avenue. He’s not seen her since he was five — a hundred years (cento anni). On his right arm, his hammer arm, is tattooed an American eagle, arrows in its beak, above which unfurls Mother. He must’ve gotten it in the Army. How could I have never asked? Angelo stands to his knees in snow and plays his lost violin.
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