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It was 4 A.M. and I was walking home from the bar with another man’s wife. I’d been in love with her since she was a little girl, but my good friend had snapped her up very young. I never had a chance.
By Poe BallantineFebruary 1996Two wedding crashers, three strikes, four hubcaps
By Our ReadersSeptember 1995Derek was unfaithful Thursday. He told me today. It hurts. OK, they didn’t do it — just kissed. But he asked her to go to bed and she refused (because he was married). But still, it could have happened. In a sense, it did happen. Is it just a cultural constraint that makes me so bothered by it? Am I just the defective offspring of a defective culture?
By Anne Marie WhelanNovember 1994I look at my kids and my husband and think of all the things we are together, and I think, isn’t it odd to be willing to risk all this so I can fuck some guy who washes dishes and whispers nasty things in my ear?
By Alison ClementJuly 1994When we’d been married for a while, I expected my husband to say “I love you,” which he’d never said except on the inside of my wedding ring. Instead he told me he thought I really liked women and encouraged me to listen to my instinctive self.
By Sarajane ArchdeaconMay 1994We were not brought together through signs and wonders; we did not even particularly love each other. We married on impulse the night of our third date without “hearing a Voice,” and things went rapidly downhill from there.
By Gayle Prather, Hugh PratherMay 1994Jane lingers in bed beneath the veil of the mosquito net and listens to schoolchildren slosh their clothing in buckets of water near her window.
By Pamela GerhardtSeptember 1993Being tied up till eternity through the children, writing to each other in a centrally located spiral notebook, consulting the I Ching
By Our ReadersJune 1993Personal, political, provocative writing delivered to your doorstep every month—without a single ad.
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